Rights of Husband and Wife, and Justice Between Several Wives
Mufti Mamunur Rashid Qaseemi · 25 October 2026 · about 1 min read
A wife's rights over her husband:
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Mahr: at least the value of 2.6 tola of silver (about 5,000 taka); spending beyond one's means is disliked.
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Home: a bedroom, kitchen and bathroom, with the necessary furniture.
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Maintenance (nafaqah): food, clothing and medical care —
- Food: half a sa' a day (about 100 taka a day, or 3,000 taka a month)
- Clothing: three sets of everyday clothes, and clothing for the season
- Medical care: treatment of conditions that affect the marital relationship
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Companionship: at least once every four months, with the wife's consent.
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Inheritance: if there are no children, the wife receives 1/8 of the property.
Beyond these, things such as gifts, recreation and transferring property are mustahabb (commendable) — not obligatory.
A husband's rights over his wife:
- Obedience in lawful matters
- Responding when the husband wishes, if there is no religious obstacle
- Personal service to the husband
- Staying at home without his permission to go out
- Keeping away unwanted guests
- Protecting the husband's property and children
Justice ('adl) between several wives:
Equal treatment is obligatory in three matters:
- Nights: an equal division of time
- Gifts: equal gifts beyond what each needs
- Inheritance: equal shares after death
Complete equality in everything is impossible — the Qur'an itself acknowledges this and allows flexibility while basic justice is kept, according to each one's needs.
References
- Surah An-Nisa 4:3, 4:129 — Several wives and justice
- Surah An-Nisa 4:12 — The wife's share of inheritance
Qur'an and hadith references were checked by the editorial team before publication; for detailed rulings consult a qualified mufti/scholar.
Frequently Asked Questions
What are a wife's main rights over her husband?
In the author's list: mahr, a home (bedroom, kitchen, bathroom and the necessary furniture), maintenance (food, clothing, medical care), companionship and inheritance.
What is the minimum mahr?
The author gives the minimum as the value of 2.6 tola of silver — about 5,000 taka (it changes with the price of silver); fixing a mahr beyond one's means is disliked.
In which matters must several wives be treated equally?
Three: an equal division of nights, equal gifts beyond needs, and equal shares of inheritance after death. Perfect equality in everything is impossible — the Qur'an acknowledges this and asks that basic justice be kept.
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